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		<title>By: Diane</title>
		<link>http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/17/dont-be-afraid-of-detours/comment-page-1/#comment-2214</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 00:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jean,
I agree with it all being a learning process.
Thanks for having me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jean,<br />
I agree with it all being a learning process.<br />
Thanks for having me!</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/17/dont-be-afraid-of-detours/comment-page-1/#comment-2188</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 22:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Diane,
I don&#039;t know if there&#039;s any divine purpose behind roadblocks, but I figure if you have to go through the pain you might as well learn something from the experience.  Again, thank you for taking the time to comment.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Diane,<br />
I don&#8217;t know if there&#8217;s any divine purpose behind roadblocks, but I figure if you have to go through the pain you might as well learn something from the experience.  Again, thank you for taking the time to comment.  <img src='http://stresstopower.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Diane</title>
		<link>http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/17/dont-be-afraid-of-detours/comment-page-1/#comment-2182</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 08:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes I wonder if roadblocks or detours are asking you to pay attention to something you haven&#039;t noticed and need to?

I so love your prayer too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I wonder if roadblocks or detours are asking you to pay attention to something you haven&#8217;t noticed and need to?</p>
<p>I so love your prayer too!</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 17:18:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>rummuser,
I just wrote the following in a comment to a law of attraction post:

&quot;About the law of attraction...I certainly believe it can be motivating if it gets us moving and working, but I just can&#039;t believe we&#039;ll always get what we want even though we play our part well.  Think of &lt;a href=&quot;http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/28/randy-pausch-a-life-well-lived/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Randy Pausch&lt;/a&gt;...I can&#039;t imagine anyone doing more to live to see his children raised.  He did wonderful things in the process, but he still passed away and missed watching them grow up.  And a friend of mine worked extremely hard for about thirty years writing science fiction, supporting herself with jobs like being a waitress while she focused on her writing.  She was convinced that she would eventually succeed in writing.  She finally gave it up in her late sixties when her health started failing.  She wound up extremely bitter for having wasted her life.  A psychologist told her at least she had spent her life doing what she loved, and she was so angry she wanted to throw him out the window...she didn&#039;t want to write for the joy of it, she wanted to be a paid writer.  

I also know plenty of people who worked hard because they felt they had to in order to survive.  They wound up successful even though had never dreamed it.  It seems to me that the law of attraction works when it gets people to focus and work hard.  That certainly increases their chances of being successful.  But It&#039;s not the only way that successful people motivate themselves.  What do you think?

Thanks for the food for thought.&quot;

So, I&#039;ll ask you what I asked the author of the post, what do you think about these other examples?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>rummuser,<br />
I just wrote the following in a comment to a law of attraction post:</p>
<p>&#8220;About the law of attraction&#8230;I certainly believe it can be motivating if it gets us moving and working, but I just can&#8217;t believe we&#8217;ll always get what we want even though we play our part well.  Think of <a href="http://cheerfulmonk.com/2008/07/28/randy-pausch-a-life-well-lived/" rel="nofollow">Randy Pausch</a>&#8230;I can&#8217;t imagine anyone doing more to live to see his children raised.  He did wonderful things in the process, but he still passed away and missed watching them grow up.  And a friend of mine worked extremely hard for about thirty years writing science fiction, supporting herself with jobs like being a waitress while she focused on her writing.  She was convinced that she would eventually succeed in writing.  She finally gave it up in her late sixties when her health started failing.  She wound up extremely bitter for having wasted her life.  A psychologist told her at least she had spent her life doing what she loved, and she was so angry she wanted to throw him out the window&#8230;she didn&#8217;t want to write for the joy of it, she wanted to be a paid writer.  </p>
<p>I also know plenty of people who worked hard because they felt they had to in order to survive.  They wound up successful even though had never dreamed it.  It seems to me that the law of attraction works when it gets people to focus and work hard.  That certainly increases their chances of being successful.  But It&#8217;s not the only way that successful people motivate themselves.  What do you think?</p>
<p>Thanks for the food for thought.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;ll ask you what I asked the author of the post, what do you think about these other examples?</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 20:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>rummuser and Robert, 
We&#039;re all agreed, commitment and practice is necessary. I figured I had already covered that in &lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/10/life-as-a-shared-adventure/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Life As a Shared Adventure&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/03/commitment-and-practice/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Commitment and Practice&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://stresstopower.com/blog/traits-of-stress-hardy-resilient-people/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Traits of Stress-Hardy, Resilient People&lt;/a&gt;. As I wrote in last week&#039;s post, &lt;blockquote&gt;I, for one, am committed to continually honing my skills. It’s a small price to pay for living life as an adventure.&lt;/blockquote&gt; I&#039;ve been doing that for years. I&#039;ve always had a lot of drive, even though I&#039;ve never been ambitious in the worldly sense. I do notice that a lot of personal development blogs are trying to encourage people to make commitments and take action. Are those things you personally are wrestling with? When is commitment easy for you? When is it difficult? For me the power of blogging is looking deeply into our own lives and sharing our experiences. Thank you both for coming by. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>rummuser and Robert,<br />
We&#8217;re all agreed, commitment and practice is necessary. I figured I had already covered that in <a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/10/life-as-a-shared-adventure/" rel="nofollow">Life As a Shared Adventure</a>, <a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog/2008/08/03/commitment-and-practice/" rel="nofollow">Commitment and Practice</a> and <a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog/traits-of-stress-hardy-resilient-people/" rel="nofollow">The Traits of Stress-Hardy, Resilient People</a>. As I wrote in last week&#8217;s post,<br />
<blockquote>I, for one, am committed to continually honing my skills. It’s a small price to pay for living life as an adventure.</p></blockquote>
<p> I&#8217;ve been doing that for years. I&#8217;ve always had a lot of drive, even though I&#8217;ve never been ambitious in the worldly sense. I do notice that a lot of personal development blogs are trying to encourage people to make commitments and take action. Are those things you personally are wrestling with? When is commitment easy for you? When is it difficult? For me the power of blogging is looking deeply into our own lives and sharing our experiences. Thank you both for coming by. <img src='http://stresstopower.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Robert A. Henru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert A. Henru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 15:19:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Detour itself is not enough, will you persistent in doing it? Do you want to do what it takes on doing it? Those might be the questions we have to be prepared to answer to make a detour.

And really thank you so much for the following quote:
&quot;Prayer isn’t asking for what we want. It’s asking to be changed in ways we can’t imagine.&quot; 

I can&#039;t agree more.
Robert

Robert A. Henrus last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reason4smile/~3/360389106/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;If only your life is a Wordpress project&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Detour itself is not enough, will you persistent in doing it? Do you want to do what it takes on doing it? Those might be the questions we have to be prepared to answer to make a detour.</p>
<p>And really thank you so much for the following quote:<br />
&#8220;Prayer isn’t asking for what we want. It’s asking to be changed in ways we can’t imagine.&#8221; </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t agree more.<br />
Robert</p>
<p>Robert A. Henrus last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/reason4smile/~3/360389106/" rel="nofollow">If only your life is a Wordpress project</a></p>
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		<title>By: rummuser</title>
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		<dc:creator>rummuser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 15:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The law of attraction is to be treated as a guideline.  Just thinking about what you want, WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT, is foolish.  In all the three stories that you have given, the individuals attracted financial and career success after they DID something about their failures.  The detours will always be there, and it is the brave man who will take the road less traveled! Being brave is also acting!

rummusers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://rummuser.com/?p=146&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;National Problem !&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The law of attraction is to be treated as a guideline.  Just thinking about what you want, WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT, is foolish.  In all the three stories that you have given, the individuals attracted financial and career success after they DID something about their failures.  The detours will always be there, and it is the brave man who will take the road less traveled! Being brave is also acting!</p>
<p>rummusers last blog post..<a href="http://rummuser.com/?p=146" rel="nofollow">National Problem !</a></p>
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